My to-do list for today looks like this:

• Wake up
• Take morning pills
• Run daily virus scan
• Put FitBit image online
  
• Have breakfast
• Get washed and dressed with a carer
• rearrange collection by Royal Mail for tomorrow
  
• dispose of the out of date yoghurts
  
• put in my next grocery order
• Give package to postie
• Bring in groceries
• Put groceries away
  
• Phone pharmacy about my owed prescription and taking Steve's back with them
• Sort out Steve's bank account closures
• Have lunch
• Take lunchtime pill
  
• Find a way to get an annual statement from Steve's current account so that we can all be sure it's all covered
  
• Ask about moving the mortgage into just my name
  
• Take evening pills
• Go to bed