Just got my carer's 7th meal for him and I still haven't eaten anything since Sunday lunchtime.
I've just asked my carer "what would you do if you were desperate for a wee and found me in the bathroom doorway with my head cracked open or a broken back?"
His reply was "I'd wee in the sink" so that's how much my carer cares about me... he feels that emptying his bladder is more important than my health. Pretty much what I was expecting and I'm guessing that after emptying his bladder he'd come back in here and fall asleep again, so I'm guessing that emptying his bladder is more important than my life too.
He's said many times that while I was in the ICU and the HDU that the nurses gave him multiple free yoghurts while he was there with me and I'm guessing that the majority of the time he was there, he was asleep too, so me fighting for my life was less important to him than having multiple free yoghurts and catching up on his sleep.
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